Let me share about my experience with the Law of Attraction. The basic premise of this concept is that thoughts become things. Meaning, what we think about the most and believe will come true, often time does. If you believe that good things will happen or bad things will happen, you are usually right. Our brain is like a magnet. What we are constantly thinking about, we often times attract in our lives. God is in control of our lives and always has the final say, but He also gives us the freedom of free will, which includes how we think.
Some people are born with the advantage of consistently being a positive thinker and believing the best is yet to come, but the vast majority of us are not. For many, including myself, this way of thinking is a learned skill. When I switched companies almost two years ago, one of my colleagues shared with me the power that the Law of Attraction offers. For one year, I read a plethora of books and articles on this topic and applied these teachings to my life. I’ve created my own diagram on how to apply this way of of thinking (see below):
Law of Attraction Steps:
Step 1 – Be Grateful: In order to get into the right frame of mind, focus on all the things you are grateful for. Those who are constantly bitter, stay bitter because they chose to focus on the wrong things. Don’t be bitter – be better! Being grateful is the first step in achieving your goal.
Step 2 – Feel Good: Being grateful helps turn our internal frequency into a positive one, which helps us feel good inside. Feeling good sends out a frequency (much like a cell phone tower) that attracts more positive things. Think about past positive experiences, laugh, smile, dance, or do something nice for someone. Our mind is like a television, when you feel positive and happy emotions inside, you are taking control of what pictures show up on the screen. You will set your internal television channel into a positive one that creates happy results.
Step 3 – Set a Goal: This one is simple…what is it that you want to achieve? First, focus on what you are thankful for, then focus on feeling emotions of joy and happiness. These two steps will help you determine what it is that you truly want and set your internal frequency to a positive one, which will open yourself up to receive more positive things. Once you’ve decided what your goal is, write it down somewhere and look at it everyday (If you haven’t, see my post on Goal Setting).
Step 4 – Visualize: Creative visualization is a mental technique that uses the imagination to create success and make dreams and goals come true. Richard Bach once said, “To bring anything into your life, image that it is already there.” When you spend time imagining in vivid detail the sights, sounds, and feelings of acting out your goal, the odds of it coming true drastically improve. This is a technique used by successful athletes and business men and women all over the world. Check this article out: 8 Successful People Who Use the Power of Visualization
Step 5 – Believe: Whatever the mind can conceive and BELIEVE, it can achieve. You must believe with all of your mind, body, and soul that you can achieve your goal. Belief is the single most important step in turning your dreams into reality. Anyone who has ever achieved anything of significance, first believed in themselves…YOU CAN DO IT! BELIEVE IN YOURSELF or no one else will.
Step 6 – Achieve: When you do these 5 steps, you will achieve your goal. Remember that success doesn’t come overnight, but takes time and hard work as well. Many people are looking for a quick fix. However, when you apply this approach to your life and consistently practice these steps daily, you will see your life truly change.
X Factor: Serving and helping others magnifies what you attract in your life. Love is the most powerful emotion in the world. Serving and helping others is a close second. When you live your life making love and service a main focus, you will attract deeper relationships, success, and true happiness…you will also receive more than you can ever imagine.
This approach helped my wife Kendra and I get our dream house, when it looked like it wasn’t possible. This technique has helped me reach monthly and yearly goals at work never seen before from a 1 or 2 year sales rep. My life and job satisfaction have never been better. I hope you apply these Law of Attraction techniques in your life as well – and make your dreams a reality!
Exercise: Close your eyes, and visualize that you already possess or have achieved your dream. Imagine what you are wearing, the people around you, where you are, how it feels, and the praise you are receiving for achieving your goal. Believe with all your might that you can achieve this goal. I can’t wait for you to apply this way of thinking to your life – and see what you WILL accomplish!
My next post I’ll review the importance of creating strong habits. I hope you are enjoying and seeing the benefits of this journey 30 Days of Gratitude and Service!